It's been so fun getting to announce to people that we're expecting.
I want to remember how each person reacted when we told them.
FAMILY:
Winn Family: We decided to tell the Winn family on Easter Sunday because that day also was dad's birthday and we were planning to celebrate mom's, since she was out of town for hers 2 weeks prior. I had made custom bibs online and one said, "I love Grandma lots & lots!" and another one that said, "I'm Grandpa's Favorite" (as everyone in the family knows, we all try to be dad's favorite son/daughter). So for their last birthday presents, after opening all the "normal" gifts - clothes, tools, etc., I handed mom her last gift with the bib in it. She opened it and said something like, "Aw! Great! I'll need to be stocked up on Grandma stuff for when Joscelin comes to visit!"... not exactly what I was aiming for, but I decided to give dad his and see if anyone would catch on. So dad opens his, and he takes his cue from mom and laughs at the picture on the bib but doesn't think anything more of it. So I say, "well - these bibs aren't for Joscelin..." Mom looks at me a little confused, then her mouth drops open and she stares at me like, "Are you telling me what I
think you're telling me?!" Then before I knew it, Melissa was up and across the room hugging me and mom is squealing and dad is smiling and they all at once
got it. They were so excited! They started asking me a bunch of questions and eventually I explained everything that had happened, how I've been feeling, showed our 6.5 week sonogram, etc.
I have all of this on video, thanks to my designated videographer brother, whom I told first and separately. I gave him the gift I was planning to give Laci (who didn't end up come) and had him unwrap it and read the note. It was a book called, "Giraffes Can't Dance", as Laci and I both love giraffes. The note said, "Uncle Eston & Aunt Laci, Will you please read this book to me in November? Love, Baby Farrell" When Eston read it, he said, " I KNEW IT! I offered you a glass of wine awhile ago and you didn't want it so I assumed you were pregnant or trying!" haha Who knew a 23 year old boy was so intuitive?!
Grandma Gillette was also at our Easter/Birthday celebration, so she was excited and said that she was so glad she got to be there for the big announcement.
We called Grandpa Winn and I told him I have some exciting news that he has been waiting to hear! He said, "I'm going to be a Grandpa again?!" Yep! He also reiterated that he is just Grandpa, because the "great" is silent! :) He's such a funny guy!
Then there's the funny story about Lindsay... While we were eating Easter dinner, I heard my phone beep in the other room saying it received a text message. After we were done eating, I went to check it and found a text from Lindsay that said, "Are you pregnant?! I had a dream last night that you were pregnant and about to give birth in the hospital where I had Joscelin, and they had to do a c-section because your baby boy was 19lbs!" hahhaha I couldn't believe it! God got to tell her instead of me!! :) I didn't reply then, but had mom text and call her and say to FaceTime me so we could video chat and we could see her reaction to the news. We did not hear from her until after 9pm, though we'd been texting for about 5 hours! We were getting so mad that she and Jason weren't responding to our calls/texts. Then my iTouch started ringing for a FaceTime chat. It was Lindsay and they were still at Jason's parents house finishing up their Easter fesitivities with all his family. So Dad got on the screen and started telling Lindsay about all the gifts he got for his birthday. He said he got 2 big ones; A miter saw stand, and "
this" (as he held up my sonogram picture). Lindsay started laughing and said, "I KNEW IT!" Then she turned and said to everyone else there, "Nichole is pregnant!" Everyone was very excited for us and said congrats. She asked a few questions but had to get offline fairly quickly, so she texted me a bunch of questions on her drive home from her in-laws that night. All in all, everyone is SOOO excited for another grandbaby/niece or nephew!
Eric & Erica: While standing in their kitchen making dinner, Caleb said to them, "So Nichole hasn't been feeling well for awhile now, and her boobs are pretty sore... any idea what's wrong with her?" They both looked at me with concern, then as it sunk in what he was saying, Erica asked me if he was serious or if he was kidding. I nodded and said he is serious, and of course I started crying. Erica started jumping up and down and screaming "AHHH!!! OH MY GOSH! OH MY GOSH! NICHOLE! OH MY GOSH! CONGRATULATIONS!" :) We all hugged (separately) and Erica and I cried while she asked me details. Eric said congratulations too and also sent me the sweetest note ever the next morning! The cutest thing was that when I asked Rylie where Aunt Cole's baby is (without having previously rehearsed this with her), she pointed to my belly! And later, she randomly came over to me and pulled my shirt up and said, "baby", while pointing to my belly. So sweet.
Craig & Laurie & kids: We stopped by their house with the premise of dropping off a book and magazine to Drew and we also had flag football pictures to give them. Caleb handed Laurie the [blurry] picture of the 4 Farrell boys, and when she flipped to the next one, which was a picture of Caleb and I holding a sign, she read out loud, "WE ARE PREGO!"?! Craig had been sleeping on the couch, so his comments were limited to things like, "Are you still going to wear a bathing suit on vacation?!" haha Laurie and Emilie hugged us and asked a lot of questions and even got excited about planning another baby shower already! Love it! Drew was sitting on the couch and gave us a
big smile. Caleb told Nate outside without me, so I have no idea what he said... I do know we told him that Caleb will be calling him to come over and help when he's alone with the baby, and Nate said he wasn't interested in changing diapers. We said too bad :).
This is the pic we gave them:
Dad & Mom Farrell & kids: We went down to Mom & Dad's after we stopped at Craig's. We had the same plan - give them their copies of football pictures we had printed and in the back have the "We are prego" picture. When we got there, Mom was on the phone with Aunt Mel helping Nya work on some homework project. So we were trying to be non-challant about why we were there while we waited. Dad asked Caleb a million times, "Why are you here? You never just stop by. Is everything ok?" I missed this one, as I was trying to make conversation with the kids and be cool, but Caleb said dad even asked him if we're pregnant!! haha Are we that obvious? :) So once Mom got off the phone, we gave her the pictures and when she got to the last one, she looked at it for a minute then said, "You are spaghetti?!" But she looked at me with a big smile on her face, so I assumed she understood and was just making a joke. I laughed and said, "YES! We are spaghettti!" Hugs all around from M&D and the 5 kids :). Mom asked me the due date and when I said November, she said, "You didn't think we had enough November birthdays?!" lol I told her I didn't realize that ANY month was available for an "alone" birthday, with such a big family. She told me April or June will work next time. hahah I will do my best! When I showed them the sonogram, Mom was quick to realize that I shouldn't have had one yet and asked what was wrong. Then I told them about how the sonogram picture is actually twice the size of real life and they thought that was CRAZY (which it is!). Nya said, "wait! So that [pointing to the picture] is IN you?!" haha YEP! (Glad she didnt ask how it got there! lol)
Kristen & KC & Olivia: Same plan - give them their football pictures and have the "prego" picture in the back. I handed them to Kristen, but she passed them off to KC. Either way worked! :) They responded with, "REALLY?!" and Kristen started crying :) Throughout the evening, I believe there were 4 bouts of tears of happiness! So excited for another niece or nephew and for us to experience the same joy they have with Olivia! Much of the evening was spent discussing parenting issues, nursery ideas, etc! So fun to finally get to share the joy and ideas!!!
We sent announcement cards to my out of town aunts and uncles. I made them on Shutterfly and love them :)
Front:
Back:
(A couple) FRIENDS:
Jessy: I had her look at a cute picture on my iTouch of my niece, when she scrolled to the next picture, it was not my niece, but a picture of a positive digital pregnancy test that said the word, "PREGNANT", on it. At first, she thought she scrolled the wrong way when she didn't see a baby, but then realized what it was and looked at me and said, "You?!" :)
Of course I said yes and we both started crying and hugged and then talked about every detail for the rest of the lunch hour we had together.
Tiffini: We went out for dinner at Olive Garden to celebrate her birthday, and I gave her a birthday card with a gift card in it, along with a written novel :). She saw the gift card and said thank you, but I had to tell her to read the card right now vs waiting for me to not be watching her. When she got to the bottom, it was signed "Caleb, Nichole & Baby Farrell". She GEEKED out, jumped out of the booth, and before I could get up to hug her, she had her arms around my neck and was jumping and yelling "YAY!" and other exclamations of joy. I actually had to laugh and tell her "shh" as EVERYONE was staring at us! :) I even heard the 10 year old girl at the booth next to us ask her dad what was going on. The dad answered, "I don't know. Maybe she just got engaged..." hahhaa Not quite.
We told many other friends/family in person and on the phone. Pretty much everyone hugged us and was so happy for us and excited to hear the news! Writing out each one would basically say the same thing. :) So if I didn't list you, it's not because you're not important or that I wasn't THRILLED to be able to tell you, it's just that it'd be boring to write "they were excited" 40 more times! :)
We are happy to share the coming months with you and will be even happier to introduce Baby Farrell to you in November!